you've probably heard it all before ,

I hate how my mind likes to jump to conclusions ,
make inferences ,
and guesses about different things ,

and with males ,
it causes my little trust issue
to spring back into memory .

Always assuming that every guy will result in dissappointment ,
and that all the ones that claim to be "unlike the rest" ,
really are in fact , just the same .

but with this new one ,
all he can do is prove to me
that he's not like every other guy ,

*and that's coming from him ,
not me , this time .*

so far I'm not having any doubts towards him,
but of course , that's how it always starts .
you never expect the unexpected .
especially in relationships , and such things like
the period of time when you're "talking to someone" .

my bestfriend says I need patience ,
and that I do .
I always question how long a guy takes before he
"pops the question" ,
but that's all in his time .
& i'm not one to see any benefit in rushing into things .